Puddings & Toyboys

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Monthly Archives: October 2018

Power Couples: Lennilai

Dalai & Lennie

This is an interesting coupling.  On the face of it, Dalai does not like Lennie much.  Lennie, however, loves Dalai.  Lennie follows Dalai around, hoping for crumbs of affection.  If he persists, then he will eventually get Dalai to engage in a flirty session.  At the height of flirting, Lennie will regurgitate to Dalai & Dalai (greedily!) takes it.  Almost immediately after Dalai has taken Lennie’s regurgitated seed, he will signal the flirting is over & Lennie is relegated back to the sidelines.

Dalai & Lennie appear to have a “fairweather” relationship, dictated by Dalai.  Yet, despite Dalai not particularly liking Lennie (unless it suits him at that moment), I think the two of them have a lot in common.  When they do the flirty-flirty-flirt dance, they appear very much in tune with each other, mirroring each other’s actions beautifully.

In some respects, Lennie does not endear himself to Dalai because he gets jealous quickly & if Dalai is flirting with Perry, Lennie will try to disrupt them.

 

Power Couples: Perrylai

Dalai & Perry

Dalai & Perry appear pretty equal in their relationship, unlike the other pairings.  Dalai loves Perry.  Apart from the obvious flirting sessions, this can be seen by the way he allows Perry to sit & eat with him from the same seed pot.  The only time I have seen Dalai behave ungentlemanly towards Perry is when it is approaching bedtime & he wants the perch & cage to himself, otherwise, Dalai allows Perry to get away with a lot.

They have a special kind of ‘smooch’ they do, that looks like they lock & intertwine the bottom, hooked part of their beaks (captured on video below).

 

Perry has a lot of time for Dalai.  During a flirting session, Perry will regurgitate seed to Dalai.  That said, if Lennie is flirting with Dalai, that is okay with Perry – he is not the jealous sort.

Dalai also likes to preen Perry’s head, which can be seen in the video below.  If you watch to the end you can see Lennie’s jealousy rearing its head & also see a glimpse of our beloved Bezukhov.

 

 

Power Couples: Lennikhov

Bezukhov & Lennie

The relationship between these two reminded me at times of when Phineas first joined Bezukhov & Cagney.   Lennie instinctively did not like Bezukhov because he perceived that he was in the way of him getting to Dalai (similarly, Phineas viewed Bezukhov as a barrier to him getting to his beloved Cagney).

Lennie would chase Bezukhov out of the way & most of the time Bezukhov would stay clear but if he was too slow, Lennie might pull a feather or two.  As with Phineas, Bezukhov was extremely patient with Lennie & never appeared to hold anything against him.  In fact, there were times when Lennie would go to chase Bezukhov off & Bezukhov would stand his ground & attempt to engage with him.  Lennie would be surprised by this reaction & actually would respond to Bezukhov & there were many occasions when they did have a flirt.  I believe that if Dalai was not viewed as the ‘prize’, then Lennie & Bezukhov would have been good friends.  It is testament to Bezukhov’s good nature that they did have some good times together.

You can see them flirting in the video on the “Power Couples” post (click here).

In the video below, you can see an interesting exchange, rarely caught on video.  Bezukhov is flirting with Perry & Lennie goes to interrupt but Bezukhov stands his ground, puffs his chest out & takes Lennie by surprise:

 

Power Couples: Perrikhov

Bezukhov & Perry

Bezukhov & Perry had a lovely relationship.  Perry clearly respected Bezukhov.  Bezukhov clearly had a soft spot for Perry.

Bezukhov was usually the one to instigate any flirting – I think Perry did not want to overstep his bounds with his elder by starting a flirt first.  Often they would sit together & Bezukhov would twitter away & Perry would gaze up at him, taking in every chirp, cheep & tweet, not even interrupting.  I could only assume that Bezukhov was imparting golden gems of wisdom that Perry wanted to concentrate on.

Bezukhov liked to preen Perry’s white head & also regurgitated to him.

 

Power Couples

Note: I started writing this post some time ago, when Bezukhov was still with us.  I have decided to continue, with some reworking of the text.

It has been some time since I have commented on friendships & relationships within the flock.

Lennie, Perry, Bezukhov & Dalai

On the positive side, all is well & all are friends.  On the ever-so slightly negative side, Perry & Lennie still live separately from Dalai (& Bezukhov when he was with us), though they have outside-cage time together.  When Bezukhov was around, their time together was largely monitored, but since his passing, there is less ‘argy-bargy’ (for want of a better word!)  It would have been nice if they all lived in harmony in the same cage, but I was content for them to have daytime together.

As far as individual friendships, it is & was, as complicated & confusing as ever, though this may well be par for the course where budgies are concerned!

Bezukhov & Dalai were good friends even though they were very different in character.  Bezukhov was easy-going & did not like conflict or court conflict.  Dalai believes he is the leader but whereas a true leader would always act for the benefit of the flock, Dalai, it has to be said, is mainly out for himself!

Perry & Lennie have been living together since their quarantine days.  They too are very different from each other but get on well as cage-mates.  Perry is pretty calm regarding friendships & relationships, whereas Lennie is a bit highly-strung & also can get jealous of others!

When all four of them mixed, we got different temporary couplings:

 *  Strength of coupling

In a series of posts I will attempt to describe each of the couplings in more detail.  In the meantime, enjoy this video of the four of them:

 

 

Remembering Phineas on his adoption day

Phineas came into our home on this day, 6 years ago.  Here is a video of him a few days after he arrived & was still in quarantine:

 

Missing you, my ol’ man.

Always in our thoughts.

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