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27 June 2019Posted by on
Today would have been Bezukhov’s 9th birthday. It will be the first birthday for some time that he will be able to celebrate with his best buddy, Cagney.
I hope they are both having a lovely time over at Rainbow Bridge & that fennel (that they are both enjoying in the video below) is plentiful:
Thinking of you, my beautiful boy.
We love you.
24 February 2019Posted by on
As with those who went to Rainbow Bridge before him, I have made Bezukhov a pillow for his resting place.
Because Bezukhov had similar colours to his girlfriend, Raspy, I used the same materials I used for her – the blue velvet & the cotton with blue feathers. The cover for his inner pillow is made with the plain blue velvet & has his full name & dates embroidered in black.
For the outer cover, I used the material with feathers in shades of blue. I rearranged the pillows, so he now rests alongside Raspy. Behind is Phineas & Thomas & behind them, overseeing them all, is Cagney beside his girlfriend, the leader herself, Atilla.
25 December 2018Posted by on
This is our first Christmas without Bezukhov.
Please join me in a reflective journey over the 8 Christmases we shared. I have selected some photos taken during December of those years……
14 December 2018Posted by on
I joined Instagram recently (@onesweetiepea) & took part in the Instagram challenge #12daysoffolksy.
Folksy is the home of British Craft, where you will find thousands of beautifully designed creations – all made by clever hands crafting away across the UK. They set up an Instagram challenge to help promote Folksy, promote its sellers (& others!) & to have a bit of fun!
I am a new Folksy seller & you can imagine that some of my items are inspired by birds or bird-related (link to my shop is at the bottom of this page). Naturally, I used some of the chosen themes to ‘promote’ my birds! Day 10 was ‘Feast’, so I posted a picture of Dalai, Perry & Lennie feasting on red millet:
I was delighted to find that they won a prize for the best animal-themed post for Day 10! They had more red millet to celebrate!
The eagle-eyed amongst you will have recognised the above photo from a previous post in 2017. (Click here to see that post). The slight sadness in this is that the red millet was in celebration of Bezukhov’s 7th birthday & you can see him in the photos in the original post. So, I feel he deserves a mention too, given that had he not had a 7th birthday, they would not have had that millet & therefore the photos would not have been taken & the prize not won! So we give big thanks to our dearest, departed friend, Bezukhov.
You can also see in the photo that Dalai had his troublesome feather!
21 October 2018Posted by on
Bezukhov & Lennie
The relationship between these two reminded me at times of when Phineas first joined Bezukhov & Cagney. Lennie instinctively did not like Bezukhov because he perceived that he was in the way of him getting to Dalai (similarly, Phineas viewed Bezukhov as a barrier to him getting to his beloved Cagney).
Lennie would chase Bezukhov out of the way & most of the time Bezukhov would stay clear but if he was too slow, Lennie might pull a feather or two. As with Phineas, Bezukhov was extremely patient with Lennie & never appeared to hold anything against him. In fact, there were times when Lennie would go to chase Bezukhov off & Bezukhov would stand his ground & attempt to engage with him. Lennie would be surprised by this reaction & actually would respond to Bezukhov & there were many occasions when they did have a flirt. I believe that if Dalai was not viewed as the ‘prize’, then Lennie & Bezukhov would have been good friends. It is testament to Bezukhov’s good nature that they did have some good times together.
You can see them flirting in the video on the “Power Couples” post (click here).
In the video below, you can see an interesting exchange, rarely caught on video. Bezukhov is flirting with Perry & Lennie goes to interrupt but Bezukhov stands his ground, puffs his chest out & takes Lennie by surprise:
20 October 2018Posted by on
Bezukhov & Perry
Bezukhov & Perry had a lovely relationship. Perry clearly respected Bezukhov. Bezukhov clearly had a soft spot for Perry.
Bezukhov was usually the one to instigate any flirting – I think Perry did not want to overstep his bounds with his elder by starting a flirt first. Often they would sit together & Bezukhov would twitter away & Perry would gaze up at him, taking in every chirp, cheep & tweet, not even interrupting. I could only assume that Bezukhov was imparting golden gems of wisdom that Perry wanted to concentrate on.
Bezukhov liked to preen Perry’s white head & also regurgitated to him.
18 October 2018Posted by on
Note: I started writing this post some time ago, when Bezukhov was still with us. I have decided to continue, with some reworking of the text.
It has been some time since I have commented on friendships & relationships within the flock.
On the positive side, all is well & all are friends. On the ever-so slightly negative side, Perry & Lennie still live separately from Dalai (& Bezukhov when he was with us), though they have outside-cage time together. When Bezukhov was around, their time together was largely monitored, but since his passing, there is less ‘argy-bargy’ (for want of a better word!) It would have been nice if they all lived in harmony in the same cage, but I was content for them to have daytime together.
As far as individual friendships, it is & was, as complicated & confusing as ever, though this may well be par for the course where budgies are concerned!
Bezukhov & Dalai were good friends even though they were very different in character. Bezukhov was easy-going & did not like conflict or court conflict. Dalai believes he is the leader but whereas a true leader would always act for the benefit of the flock, Dalai, it has to be said, is mainly out for himself!
Perry & Lennie have been living together since their quarantine days. They too are very different from each other but get on well as cage-mates. Perry is pretty calm regarding friendships & relationships, whereas Lennie is a bit highly-strung & also can get jealous of others!
When all four of them mixed, we got different temporary couplings:
* Strength of coupling
In a series of posts I will attempt to describe each of the couplings in more detail. In the meantime, enjoy this video of the four of them:
28 August 2018Posted by on
It is 8 weeks since we lost Bezukhov. I think of him all the time & miss him.
Dalai, Perry & Lennie are coping well without him. There are some videos at the end of this post.
Dalai appears to be ‘top bird’. He always thought it before, but I think Bezukhov’s presence put a question mark over it. Lennie still runs around after Dalai. Perry is easy-going & just goes with the flow & if the flow means that Dalai calls most of the shots, then so be it.
At the time of Bezukhov’s death, both he & Dalai shared the Silver Villa & Perry & Lennie’s home was the New Villa. Since Bezukhov’s passing, Perry & Lennie spend all day in the Silver Villa with Dalai but come bedtime, things revert to how they were.
I have been prepared for them all sharing overnight but this has not happened yet. It seems that Dalai still wants his own space at bedtime. He does tend to retire to bed quite early & has his last feed early too. Bezukhov liked to get in several feeds before the cover went over but was mindful of not disturbing Dalai.
As the evening draws in, Dalai usually gives a sign that it is time for his visitors to return to their own home. He will vacate the Silver Villa & most of the time both Perry & Lennie follow him out, which gives me the opportunity to close up the Silver Villa & then allow Dalai back in alone. I was concerned that maybe I was unconsciously causing this situation so experimented by not closing up the Silver Villa. What resulted was that Dalai got increasingly tetchy as his bedtime rapidly approached. He would beak anyone who sat on the same perch as him & generally made himself unpleasant to be around! One evening, I heard a shriek as Perry flew out & landed on the plant pot stand. When I went over to investigate, I noticed Dalai had a blue feather in his beak! His solo bedtime was overdue!
So things are sorting themselves out. Reflecting on how things have been, I wonder if myself & Bezukhov were the most strongly bonded, given that the others have been coping much better than I have.
12 August 2018Posted by on
Followers of this blog will know that my dear Bezukhov had various health issues over the years. I thought a final review would be appropriate.
The first major health challenge began in mid-2014 when Bezukhov started to have ‘Vacant Episodes’.
These ‘episodes’ were handled in a variety of ways, detailed in the many posts over the years. When they appeared to stabilise, the vet & I decided to cease all medication (early part of 2016) with the proviso to only administer medicine in an extreme circumstance.
I have previously posted lists of his episodes to date, with the last post being in December 2015 (click here to view). For completeness, I have updated the list & here it is:
As I logged each episode, I spent much time trying to find a pattern as that may give a clue as to the cause. All I know is that he seemed to have a spike in May/April time & the winter months were more stable.
Without knowing the real cause it is difficult to treat. However, I believe it may have been a liver problem & early medication was focused on that & ongoing supplements (milk thistle & Aloe Vera Detox) continued to target this. Given that we were unable to stop the episodes completely, we aimed to get them to a manageable/stable level & to reduce ‘cluster’ episodes, i.e., multiple ones in a short space of time.
The worst day was “Black Wednesday”, the 22nd of April 2015, when he had 4 in one day, 3 of which were within 90 minutes. You can see the days where he had multiple episodes in the list above (figures in brackets). The chart below shows an overview by month & year:
I greatly feared that Bezukhov’s end would be by a seizure & desperately hoped he would not suffer a prolonged one.
In the last few years, Bezukhov introduced a new health problem – his very own Extreme Moult Experience. Though it is not uncommon for birds to have a severe moult, I was aware that Bezukhov’s first extreme moult happened not long after we lost his best buddy Cagney. Was it a coincidence that his next two extreme moults happened around Cagney’s anniversary? Bezukhov was a very sensitive bird which is why I wondered if there was a connection.
Fortunately, he tended not to have episodes during the Extreme Moult Experiences, which is just as well as I was already worried enough. I feared during these experiences that he would just starve himself to death & I desperately hoped his end would not be that way.
In the end, it was something entirely different that took him. A tumour.
The vet thought it was aggressive & grew very quickly (they can double in size each day), using up his body’s energy. She suspects that the mass started on the outside of the small intestine & probably started growing inwards, explaining the initial lack of droppings & then the very dark ones later on that eventually contained fresh blood as the mass expanded.
Bezukhov was a fighter. As you can see from what I have written above, he fought through many health problems. The vet, who had looked after him from 2014, said that Bezukhov was possibly the most determined bird she had ever met.
Bezukhov was sensitive too & reacted emotionally to his surroundings, but he pushed on through all the changes & traumas in his life, possibly the most significant being the loss of his best buddy Cagney, with such grace & dignity.
He truly was remarkable. I am grateful to have been a part of his life & feel honoured that he chose to trust me.